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Dee feminine noun: muslimah, muser, book worm, wu tang banger, black intellect, womanist.

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Anonymous :  Have you heard about the gay mosques? What do you feel about that?

I feel no way. They are building a mosque to pray and worship the same God I pray and worship. I have no right to tell someone they can’t worship Allah based on whatever.

Anonymous :  Hi what do you mix for the mask? And also do you do your eyebrows?

Hi!

Turmeric power, olive oil, honey, a few drops of lemon juice, then I put coconut oil on my face once I wash it off. And no, I don’t do my eyebrows :).

Anonymous :  Why are your best friends your best friends? You seem like you are happy with the people in your life. Whats your secret?

Hello,

My best friends all all bring positivity to my life, they make me happy, they are encouraging and supportive no matter what. They are more than best friends. They are my backbone, my hipbone, my sun and moon. Everything plus more.

You are right, I am really happy with the people in my life. The secret? Keep positive and encouraging people in your life. Your friends and those you keep around you play a key role in your happiness. You absorb their energies. Why would you want to absorb negativity and be down all the time? You don’t. Its a cycle of positivity. You give good, they absorb your good. They give you good, you absorb their good.

Alhamdulilah.

Anonymous :  Would you be with a fat guy?

fat or skinny, does not matter. what matters is that he meets my requirements:

a) he likes my cooking, food in general and likes to eat,
b) he is bearded

because i like to eat and cook/bake and i like beards.

Anonymous :  *moves to canada*

*welcomes you with open arms*

Anonymous :  Are you in America?

Nope, Canada.

Anonymous :  Where do you download your music from. Are they usually free?

If I really love an album I will buy it (which is rare). The last album I bought was James Blake’s one. I usually just download the torrents.

Anonymous :  thanks for the sharing! what made you get into books?

anytime! my great grandma was a storyteller. i grew up listening to her stories every night. when she died i needed something/someone to tell me stories…so yeah, books were the answer lol. xo

Anonymous :  hi! what books are you planning on reading this summer??

Currently the books that sit in my shopping cart

And the Mountains Echoed by Khaled Hosseini
Americanah by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
Girls at War and Other Stories by Chinua Achebe
Ghana Must Go by Taiye Selasi
Happiness, Like Water by Chinelo Okparanta
Knots by Nuruddin Farah
Joys of Motherhood by Buchi Emecheta
A Deeper Love Inside: the Porscha Santiaga Story by Sister Souljah

Anonymous :  Would you marry someone who is not a Muslim or practices Islam?

No, only because Islam is not just a religion to me.. It is my lifestyle and I practice it everyday in some way, shape or form. I plan to raise my kids with this lifestyle, so yeah..my other has to be Muslim to give my children that and to understand my choices without getting upset and whatnot. And from my own family experiences, I’ve seen too many of these situations get ugly real quick and that makes me even more hesitant.

Anonymous :  Currently: whats on your mind?

My sore butt and that it is my bedtime right now.

Anonymous :  Random question --- what is one thing you want to work on/improve in your life?

Learn to be honest with my feelings and not to be afraid to share them with who I have to share them with.

Anonymous :  Do you and "alsmooth" know each other in real life?

yes..way before social media sites existed lol.

side note: she is such a beautiful person. masha’Allah man. just masha’Allah. People like her are hard to come by. I’m so blessed to have light shining on me. xo

Anonymous :  Can you recommend some books that have made an impact on you?

hi!

bell hooks’ “sisters of the yam: black women and self-recovery” has really made an impact on my life. also, “you can be the happiest woman in the world” by dr. aidh al-qarni. and “the tao of wu” by rza those books are non-fiction. if you are looking for fiction:

- the kite runner and a thousand splendid suns both by khaled hosseini.
-
this is how you lose her and the brief wondrous life of oscar wao both by junot diaz
- things fall apart by chinua achebe
- twelve tribes of hattie by ayana mathis
- the book of negros by lawrence hill
- half of a yellow sun by chimamanda ngozi adichie
- interpreter of maladies by jhumpa lahiri
- secret daughter by shilpi somaya gowda

and autobiographies
- I know why the caged bird sings by maya angelou
- a piece of cake by cupcake brown
- persepolis by
marjane satrapi

I am going to force myself to stop now or else i will not stop lol. but yeah, the above books really all touched me in one way or the other.

Anonymous :  I love your blog and YOU!!!

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